So, H initiated more D talk last night. He wanted to talk about details of the D (financial/child) even though it's not going to be final for at least 6 months. In the meantime, he would like to be able to publicly date ow since it's just a formality from this point. Nice... I guess that means I can date, too right?

Then, after the D is final, he is moving in w/ow. In his mind, people won't know that he had an A. Ummm... I think they'll figure it out! People don't typically move from one household to another even within a few months unless there was something going on while the marriage was still intact.