My H always though I as quite flirty but I didn't/don't think I am. It's different on the PC with absolute strangers you are never going to meet and who know you are joking, (like this site), but in real life I don't think I flirt. However I do find other people intersting and I think sometimes other people misread that interest - I have had problems from time to time with unwanted attentions - even from the same sex!!!!!!!!!!!!
It can be a problem the closer you are to a person because you don't want to hurt their feelings and with most people that do overstep the boundaries you probably need to be quite firm to settle things. I made the mistake with my H's sister's H of not being hard enough with him when he kept trying it on with me. I did tell my H what was going on all the time and we thought we dealt with it diplomatically but it came back and bit us and now we no longer have interaction with that side of the family. At least my H knew I was telling the truth all along. I can say quite truthfully that although I have had these attentions from others on occasions I have NEVER had any desire to act on them.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
