I can relate to part of your sitch. My H is out again for the third night in a row. What for I ask myself? It is very hard to go without the affection and love you crave but let me tell you when you are getting it and then they walk out the door a few minutes later isn't easy either. You might be better off not getting it until she knows she really wants to give it. I find it confusing when he is here and all cuddly but can leave an hour later angry so he can go to the bar with buddies. Even though it really hurts, maybe it's a gift in disguise. Sounds silly but maybe. Just my thoughts on the whole affection thing.
Me:32 H: 34 T: 12 YEARS M: ALMOST 5 S: 8 D: 4 S: 14 (OTHER R) SEPERATED: 03/09/07 (but wanted to work on it) NEW SEPERATION: 27/11/07 (doesn't know what he wants) MOVED HOME 12/01/08 I'm acting as if this blue sky is never going to rain down on me....Sara Evans
