I have a bouquet full of ideas on boundaries and tending fences and forgiveness which I may or may not get to on Monday. But first, threadjack alert: ...shoutout to blackfoot ...the "traditional wedding vows" of which denomination say "cherish and protect" for the groom and "respect and honor" for the bride? The scholar in me (or the cat, take your pick) must know, and I am simply clueless. With link, if possible. Thank you.
Edit to add: nothing to do with LFL or her sitch, just my personal quest to know everything.
