Did you guys ever lose your connection altogether? Was there a time when she treated you almost like a stranger and then you got close again where she started confiding in you? Just curious.
I know what you mean about saying 'it is easy to fix'. I said this to H about 7 weeks back (S was only a week old)...before I found DB. It didn't go over well. He said something like "What? Move back in and live happily ever after?". I just can't imagine with such young kids how it is so easy for them to walk away from the opportunity to be close to them. My H just keeps saying 'they will be fine'. But why is it better to give up that closeness rather than make the effort to try to save it by working on the M? Is it just this crazy selfishness going on inside of them?
Sorry to relate it all back to me...apparently I'm in selfish mode right now! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
