I constantly call my husband babe, all the time. I really have to start concentrating on not doing that., Just so reflex. I hardly ever call him by his first name. Need to work on this.
I have been acting like he is not going to tell me. Just waiting for the bomb drop. Thats all.
I also feel it was just a reaction to the situation. I am worried about the weather. I also told h to call me if he wanted to. Now i said this the other night, and did not expect him to call, and guess what he called like 2am, to tell me how the weather was. I think he will call tonight, but ABSOLUTELY hold not hope that he will. If he does, ok, if not oh well.
Your backslide was not bad today, Its something we are all entitled to do. Put it behind you, I know you are hurting. You will be fine.
bear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
Honey, it wasn't a backslide, consider it testing the waters. AND IT WORKED!!!
Saying I love you back is major. Even if it doesn't mean everything is perfect, it means it isn't all lost. It is a GOOD THING. And it is progress.
He may not have decided to go. Might not be a done deal.
Things are not always perfect with OW in affairs, and if they have trouble, it doesn't look like he's gonna tell you ab out it (some guys do, though, can you b elieve that?)
Anyway...you're doing a GOOD JOB!
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
