Got call from GF on way home from work Tuesday. She wanted to discuss ski trip plans for Feb. 27 weekend. Good conversation. We spoke for about 25 minutes and she vented a little about the trip and asked my advice on things for planning and for food since she is in charge of it. Also, the best part of the call was when she told me she is coming home from work and going to drive up with me instead of her MF! I’m so happy for this! I know there is nothing going on between them, but I really don’t trust him due to issues in the past. Anyways, she seems glad I’m going. One more point was she discussed who I might be hanging out with because everyone in this cabin are mostly her new friends who I know but not as well as the other cabin that all her sisters and their friends are in. but it seemed like even she doesn’t plan to spend much time with them either because they are bringing their own friends too so hopefully we will be together but I will be sure to mingle and show her how social I can be. But at first I said, “are you sure you want me in your cabin?” and she replied , “ Yeah, Def… yeah, I want you in the cabin.” It seemed to woke her up a bit when I asked that. Kind of like a few weeks ago when I said maybe I shouldn’t come and she got upset and insisted. =)
On another note I took a day off with a friend and went snowboarding Wednesday. I drove to his mother’s house in upstate NY Tuesday night. While snowboarding, I got a call on top of the mountain. It was my GF! She just checked her mail bin (I guess she doesn’t check it often) She got a Chinese New Year card I sent to her about 3 weeks ago. I always wanted to ask If she ever got it but never did. Anyways, she said she liked it and called to say thank you. I am sure it made her happy when she saw this. I think it was a great touch! She apologized for interrupting my snowboarding and we got off.
10 minutes later, she called back! Wasn’t too important, but she and I have always talked about seeing the new Lord of the Rings movie and how we never saw it yet. Anyways, she found out its leaving the theatres soon and wanted me to know because she was making plans last minute with her sister to see it. I told her thank you but I actually saw it already. This surprised her and she asked right away with who I saw it with. She always asks about where Im going or who with. I told her I went with my brother. Anyways, She didn’t have to call but she cared enough to do so.
Im very positive that my new communication skills are paying off slowly. I see our communication improving more and more on the phone. God is good and I am so thankful for the help I am receiving. Well, that’s all for now!! Hopefully Ill be back soon!
Sorry for rambling, I like to be detailed.
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