I'm glad you started this thread. My H and I are also trying to figure out what will happen. H isn't angry or as distant as some - maybe I'd be a bit better off if he was - so currently we are coordinating shopping for presents, etc. I still don't know what'll happen when the day actually comes. My h isn't in a situation to have the boys, so that's not in the equation. I can't quite see us having a happy ol' sit around the tree, though, either. I think we're doing the "just don't think about it and see what happens" trick, which doesn't always work out well!
The only advice the IC has given is to be creative - make new traditions. My only problem is that I'm feeling so unChristmasy this year I can't find the creative juice. It's about all I can do to just do what we usually have done, at least as far as decorating, etc.
Anyway, I'm interested too in seeing what others are doing. Thanks - Anned
- so currently we are coordinating shopping for presents, etc. I still don't know what'll happen when the day actually comes. My h isn't in a situation to have the boys, so that's not in the equation. I can't quite see us having a happy ol' sit around the tree, though, either. I think we're doing the "just don't think about it and see what happens" trick, which doesn't always work out well! 
