Thanks blindsided. I did learn that I am much better off with no contact. We think like 2 different people now and are like oil and water. I have never seen him so off the edge like I have today. He didn't like that I told him friends and family are stepping in to do his job. He didn't like that he possibly wont be there for the birth of his child. He didn't like that I called him a 19 year old frat boy!
He made a comment that he would be here as much as he could after she is born and then when she is old enough he will be taking her for visitation. I have got to prove that he is not a stable man. i cannot imagine him taking her.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!