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Been gone to company Christmas party. big old Mike almost broke down a couple of times. Seems they had a safety meeting and took up a collection for me. Among 15 guys the got over $500 for me and a card. I tried to get around to all of the guys to thank the but didn't make it. Party was at Dave and Busters, a restaurant and game rooms. families were invited so most everyone were chasing after kids. The guys I did thank, my I choked up on my voice and had tears I my eyes. When I first got the card and opened it up I had to walk away, tears were flowing. Regional manager saw me walking away wiping my eyes, asked if I was ok, told her I couldn't talk right now but was OK.

Sounds like your H might be drifting back, just make sure you don't put any pressure on him. He has to come back in his own time. he is probably carrying the guilt for the A with him. He has to learn to forgive himself even if you have already forgiven him. He is going to come forward and retreat. Don't get discouraged when he withdraws.

Got to go , going over S26's house with S25.

Mike


M 51
W 49
S26 S25
D24 D19
Married 27 yrs
T over 30
S 7/12
D-bomb 9/26