Don't weaken, you're doing great. Why would you want to talk to him or see him right now. If he's been drinking nothing good can come of it now. #1 he'll either be really mean or #2 he'll be really sweet, but it won't matter when he sobers up. He is starting to feel the consequences it seems like, let him. I know the holidays are hard. You'r doing tremendously well. I wish I could say the same. Hang in there. You can do this.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him