Hey, just got back from lunch with GF. Went well! I did great at not expecting much and making the most of what time we had together. We talked the entire time and it wasnt like pulling teeth or anything. We talked abot everyday stuff, some joking, and she also was complaining about family stuff or friend stuff and I just made an effort to listen and validate her. I know I did a good job at this and I hope I can get even better with practice.
She is also volunteering more information about what she has been doing latley and with who, like her friends. She was also interested in things about me too and asking me questions. We made a lot of eye contact. After lunch, she had to clean up her house and do laundry and stuff but I wasnt going to stay unless asked. So I dropped her off and then ran a few errands of my own.
So, thats about it. I will call her again this week, once, maybe twice and maybe ask her out for lunch next weekend. I was thinking that a weekly lunch date can become a habit and give us time to spend together that new feelings can grow and old ones can re-surface. Not going to rush things though. Just an innocent lunch date once a week. What do you all think?
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