Sun,
I worry when you say you can't stand the sight of him. I get where you're coming from (*believe* me), but again, if you need to move from being enemies to being friends to romance to re-evaluation, what can you do to drain off some anger?

Can you laugh when he says those things? Maybe you can come up with some clever lines to use when he lashes out at you.

I think there is truth to loving them home. And what can you do to feel more loving towards him, even when he is not lovable right now?


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D