Ok, so I go out this am, to do some more errands for xmas. H is still sleeping,. I head home around 1pm have one more place togo, ask h if he wants to go get lunch. I get no, i have some shopping and errands to do myself. You have got to be kidding me, I know darn well that there are no gifts for me he is shopping for.

Bet you she gets better gifts than i ever got. I basically had to show h, look this is what i would like for xmas. Never really had a mind of his own. I'm glad he would buy what i would want don't get me wrong, just once in a while I would like some surprise. Looks like I got one in June and Sept.

phbear


Me 42-Him 40
T20yrs Married 16yrs
2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore"
6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW
12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce