My pastor would like to talk to him about us. He feels that my H is very confused and needs a reality check basically. yeah, no kidding. As far as I know H respects him. He's never said anything to the contrary.
Saffie, were you and your H separated? How long did it take? I've been reading and DR says it's about 1 month for every year of M. I guess I have about 4 more months to go and that's if I can keep the changes I'm making consistent. It's hard but I'm actually feeling better about me and am more determined to keep it together. He has said several times I am so predictable. Never thought i would insulted by that word. lol.
Did I tell you that he had received an email re: his paypal account that someone had tried to hack into it? He immediately blamed me. This was right after Thanksgiving. I think he thought I was doing more of the same but it wasn't me. Good grief. Anyway, I received two emails from paypal one on the 13th and one yesterday from paypal stating the same thing. I forwarded to them and simply said "I thought you should see these". He read them but didn't respond. I'm not going to say anymore about it.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
