Luv, At this point I think you are going to have to work harder on detaching from him. Don't call him unless it has to do with daughter, and make sure it is only something that you can't handle on your own. If you don't get him, leave a message on his voicemail. He knows your daughter is sick and he is not being a responsible adult and checking on her. Just let him be irresponsible father and you take care of her. You're a great mom who loves her child deeply. I'm sorry he is acting like this, but right now there is nothing you can do. Detach and come on here and vent. Just don't vent to him. Don't even ask him questions about what he is doing or where he is. Even though you have a valid reason for calling him he is going to see you as being needy. Let him see that you are strong woman and you can do it by yourself. Let him be the "little boy".
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
