Well then MJ, you are going to break this pattern by finding a guy the exact opposite of your stbx who has no mean/cruel streak and you are going to be happy.
Nope, 'cause the guy who would be roughly the opposite of my 2bx would be roughly equivalent to Bill Clinton in terms of sexuality/personality/virtues&vices and I don't want that either. Besides, a guy like that needs somebody tough like Hilary for the long run and I'm definitely more the Monica type. I think I need somebody who is a bit of a hard*ss but has a sense of humor, kind of a Ricky Ricardo type but I could be wrong. Anyways, I intend to be very, very picky.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
