As I read hopefloats and brue, it reminded me an expression that I know but often forget to practice: "I can choose to be peaceful, or I can choose to be right." I don't know about you, but I struggle with needing to be right on even the most unimportant things. So this is a challenge for me. But it kinda fits with the other posters' observations. Unless it is a life or death matter, we can choose to be peaceful and let them be (to be wrong!) and to figure it out eventually. I see a lot of practice in my future coming up, what with soon-to-be-stepmom in the picture.
