Thanks AH,
If there is a silver lining to mlc for the LBS I believe it's that you really focus on your children sooner or later. That moment for me was when WAW got mlc mad at me just before our son's birthday and told me she didn't want to see me and would not be coming to my son's birthday party so she wouldn't have to. I was severely depressed for about half a day and moped around the apt. until I realized my son and his birthday was what was really important. Planned the party by myself, she found out and showed up anyway. Those of us with children in this sitch are truly blessed because of the source of inner strength they can help us tap.

Wierdness:
1.She has noticed I have become a "phenomenal parent" (she isn't and knows it).
2.She tells people she still "loves" me.
3.She is concerned I haven't had sex in a year (because I'm standing for our marriage, doh!).
4.She gave me a girlfriend's phone number to set me up to take care of #3(I didn't call, she followed up to see if I did).

Last edited by sleeper; 12/15/07 03:29 PM.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.