[ Best to stick to the all things chocolate category.
There's the old LFL!
LFL, Your H doesn't want to lose you, but he doesn't recognize the depth of your wounds ( I could write a book about this). Making that comment...well, he didn't realize how much he opened everything up again. My personal experience is that my H doesn't realize the hurtful stuff...he just moves on...but it is MY responsibility to let him know...and I do....I bang him over the head with this stuff if I have do ( after Ipull myself from my cozy retreat in the wounded corner).
I know you don't have it in you do initiate the lionness/sexy stuff ( hey, either do I), but how about a sneaky snowball launch??? and then jumping on him. It's friendly aggressive stuff! Go have fun with him and the kids, LFL! ( and give me the chocolates).
