You said do you remind me of something or someone. My answer to that would be no. Why am I cold. I wouldn't say I am cold. Just trying to attempt to get you to look at things from a different perspective. Like the way your husband may be feeling and why.
I guess I still don't understand why you think I'm not seeing things from a different perspective. All I see are different perspectives, thus my confusion. I'm assuming you don't appreciate my waffling or questionable commitment to the M. I can't do anything about that. I need to make my own choices and mistakes and learn the hard way, don't we all. I still think you are not being completely honest though. I don't know your whole backstory but I see you also post on the Infidelity board. My assumption was that maybe you are transfering some feelings onto me regarding your own situation. That's pretty common and no harm done. I hope things work out for you.
