I am curious though Mark if you two seperate and go into divorce then what happens with the house? Will she be able to afford to stay there? Because then what happens to the dogs? Now of days it is hard to find a place to rent that allows dogs. Maybe as a final word with her calmly before she goes to get it you could mention this.
That is really sad if she feels she needs to buy her children's love. Also if divorce happens couldn't you get joint physical custody then you wouldn't have to pay child support. I am sure a judge would take into consideration that you never wanted this to happen. She cheated then asked for divorce.
