I had to get cards for my parents, etc. I struggled so long over getting a card for h, do i, don't i. Well i got a card, that says in the front we may not make it all the way to merry this year, but were still family. Inside says Were still holding each other up and sharing the love that always leads us back to good times.
Now I am in the state of do, or don't i give him the card. Do or don't i get him a gift. Now keep in mind that the gift would be a gift card to starbucks and barnes and Noble book store. I still want to get him a gift because its christmas, and i don't care if i do not get one back. I want to my heart wants to. Am i being stupid? And then what do i do for his birthday which is 1/6. This i will have to sit on for a while.
Am i being i don't know unrealistic about the gift cards. If he says he does not want them I will use them. I don't want to seem nieve or anything. I don't know I don't really care if he gets me even a card. I want to do this because it is christmas its better to give than receive.
To me, the card sounds great! Hopeful but not pushy. The gifts you are thinking of are very neutral and I would give them. You have to be true to yourself, too. I bought a gift for my H - not sure when I will see him to give it, but I can't just ignore the fact that it's Christmas and it wouldn't feel right to pretend he doesn't exist for me.
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now
