Marc: Stateflower gave you some great advice! In addition to that - when the two of you are back togetehr and down the road marry - would you consider moving away from the "hometown"? It might be something to think about. I see her family meddling in your relationship/marriage down the road to the point of suffocation and the two of you will feel like you can't escape.
I hope Christmas went okay for the two of you. I will say though - you need to have so much more patience. Randy on the Piecing thread took 3 years to get his wife back. He did it one babystep at a time. If you really love her than you will help her, support her, and be there for her when she comes back into your arms!
