Originally Posted By: JennyF
Hi Lizzy,
You sound really positive.

It's great that your H is doing things like scraping off the car and buying you wiper blades. My H has really stopped doing these things...you'd think with a newborn he'd go out of his way. The gentleman in him is buried so deep!

Hope you have fun wrapping...I really have to get myself motivated to do this.
J~


Thanks Jenny. I am trying to lower my expectations and that has helped. I know I can't be with H the way things are now. I have to keep reminding myself that a lot of changes need to happen first. I had a talk with a friend of mine last night. Did a lot of venting and she did a lot of validating which I needed to hear. She also told me how she is amazed at how well I'm holding it together. I have had many people tell me that.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
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