Your trip sounds like it was very positive, Brit. I am amazed at all the things your wife told you. It really sounds like she is looking deep within herself and realizes that you both need or needed to change. It must have felt great to cuddle with her in the morning and feel that connection again.
It is so hard when they say they are being a bad parent. At one time my H was the worlds greatest father. Our H as kind of drifted him and the Ds apart. One of my biggest hopes is that relationship is repair. I am glad your W is seeing that D needs her. It seems to me like she has been very disconnected from her and that connection may be getting repaired.
