That kind of interaction - H getting all twitchy if it looks like I might want to do something sexual is normal around here. I don't know if it is indicative of an affair so much as a lack of trust, undercurrent of resentment and lack of respect. Zu - you may not want to make a big deal of it but you do need to call him on his disrespect. He can say no but he doesn't need to act crappy. IMO - he owes YOU an apology.
