H said our M is "platonic"

[RedHeadWife]

I have to agree w/ Lil when she says that your H leaving and the way he did it is having a huge impact on how you are STILL feeling. Did YOU ever go to C back then? I know when my D sitch happened, even after H refused to continue C and said he was just done, no more, I continued to go FOR ME. I can totally understand that you would STILL have feelings of anger, hurt, etc. toward him for how he handled that. It's very easy to decide to forgive a spouse of certain things, but it's not as easy to just forget and you can't just turn off the emotions that go along w/ it and those emotions last a long time.