Thanks for the reply. I had discussed this with a cousin of mine who is family law lawyer when W initially said she wanted a D. L said to contact her if I receive papers. Will do that on Monday. Cousin had also mentioned D mediation but if I want to slow things down I don't think that is the way to go. I have been working out 4 times a week since early Oct and really watching what I'm eating - I had gained a lot of weight over the years. The exercise has helped tremendously with the stress and sleep. (I've lost 32 lbs so far - still a long way to go) Your reply made a lot of sense.
Thanks so much, A hug is what I could use right now FMD
Me - 53 W - 50 3 grown children Married 31 years Bomb dropped late september Married - 31 years