and I don't doubt that your a good man. for heaven sakes, your on this site trying to make things work. You could have done the exact opposite.

I definitely think you shouldn't just hang out here waiting for her to come back. you definitely need to move on as yourself....-not move on to another R- as I mentioned before, and allow the door to be open.

it was just the comment that you don't owe her anything. almost like she doesn't deserve anything from you. I think you both deserve something from each other... whether you get something or not is another story. Love is about giving even when your not receiving. maybe your comment wasn't meant to sound as harsh.



Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."