I know you feel W isn't "emotionally sick" = which was the best way I could put it... but when you guys got married, when things were good, would you have thought she would ever do what she did? Is she really the same person? I would have to think the answer is no, but I don't know. It seems that most people who go thru this are shocked by what happened (at first until they start realizing the hidden signs) and really can't understand how they are hurting us in such a way, and how easily they can abandon their vows, especially when kids are involved.

that's why I say they are emotionally sick. I really feel your w is not herself yet. someday she's going to look back at have a different view of everything.

I understand your point, and I can't force my views on anyone. And because I look at it at a christian viewpoint, my whole belief is that if you have faith in God, he will restore your M.

I kept my ring on for over half a year and I didn't feel stupid at all. I didn't feel stupid, even though he was screwing another girl who he thought was the perfect girl for him. But it was my faith that kept me going and allowed me to stand and not feel stupid about it. It's not going to make sense to everyone, and everyone has to make their own decisions.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."