H said our M is "platonic"

[MJontheMend]

For strong bunny starters, I propose a wickedly expensive haircut with blonde highlights, a new dress (something girly and flowing), and a pinkish nail color + lipstick, a glass of red wine, a long bath, and a book you enjoyed as a wee young girl. Or was that monkey? Mojo, I'm getting your animals mixed up.

That sounds pretty darn bunny to me. It's important to remember to not treat your bunny as pathetic if you don't want her to be pathetic. For instance, I shouldn't be eating rice pudding right now in a pathetic Bridget Jones-like reaction to a minor break-up.

Mojo, you have moments where you're just this side of brilliant. The brilliant side of brilliant, I mean.

Really I'm just trying to tell LFL what I think BF has been trying to tell the women on the BB for a while. I couldn't understand it until I got out of my marriage and experienced interacting with men who actually did play me bunny again. However, it's not like it's some miracle solution to all marital problems. The zoo keeper has to get all the animals healthy before a relationship can be healthy. A marriage can't survive on a strong St.Bernard/Bunny dynamic alone. Also, I still can't wrap my mind around the sexism inherent in maintaining the male/female dichotomy which is necessary for sex. I tell myself that I am a post-feminist neo-primitive/romantic but I don't even know how to do "that" yet myself, let alone how to find a guy to play the opposite role so I can only offer LFL the benefit of my hindsight is 20/20 experience so far.