t's the reason why arranged marriages are, on the whole of it, "more successful", than western "love" based marriages.
Of course, most arranged marriages occur in cultures where the infidelity of married males is winked at and women just sit home and do needlework and suffer from hysterical illnesses or lose their sex drive after the 8th kid sucks them dry or gives them uterine prolapse.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver