NoDirection, what do you think is best for your son? The way she is acting, it sounds like she doesn't have his best interest in mind. I suggest that you stand firm, and if need be, take your son and go somewhere. The time for considering her feelings is over. If you feel she is putting your child in danger, you must act!
As it is, you have not been served, so there is no law against you taking your child and leaving, If she does call the police, then, just explain to them the sitch, tell them that you are filing for a D, and tell them about the danger that she has put your son in.
Don't fight with her physically, just take your son and leave. You have done all you can to save the M, now save yourself and your son. I am here if you need to talk, You are in my prayers. Take care.
