Your sitch sounds similar to mine. I had already started on the self improvement journey as I knew we had problems in my M and it was seeing this that made my H tell me about the A and want to end the A
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
