My M is another that has survived A's -- and that doesn't just include the EA he was having during the whole D sitch, that includes 2 EA's at least and not sure how much PA was going on while he was deployed years ago and one 1 night stand, while deployed also -- so it can happen -- staying together after an A.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10