That's what my H did for about a week - it was one hell of a ride - but we haven't looked back since. Hang in there. She will realise just how much she has to lose. Once reality and practicalities set in.

My marriage is surviving well. I do wish it had never happened but there are benefits; we are much closer again now - more like when we were first married and we share everything again. It has made us focus on each other rather than just co existing.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength