November 6th I began following Divorce Remedy tools w/o backslides.

1. Called me first day I stopped signing onto AOL at work. wanted to see where I was.
2.Text messaged me wishing me fun over weekend while I was visiting a friend.
3.emailed me asking about my weekend with friend then called me later that night to discuss in more detail.
4.Text messaged me 2 more times that week to let me know she has been sick
5.Text messaged me asking me to go out for lunch with her and wound up spending whole day together.
6.Text messaged me following day to tell me she was gonna be home sick the next day
7.Text messaged me night before thanksgiving to wish me a happy Turkey day and I replied back so she called me later that night.
8.She visited me at my new part/time holiday job with her 2 sisters at the mall. This mall is farther from her house so I hope she came purposley for me.

There has been a few other small things and positive moments 2 other times I saw her this month, once because I had to pick something up and the other was to give her her birthday presents, and one day I signed onto AOL for the first time in a month just to say hi and we had a very busy yet light fun conversation.

Im doing my best to keep her being the first to initiate contact with me, but once in a while I do make a small offer to say hi because Im not at the stage where I think I should go totally black. I want her to miss me.

Im getting impatient and nervous with christmas coming up and 2 months away is valentines day and a week from that is our 8 yr anniversary. Wish me luck everyone.

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