LFL I get defensive when people imply that I am not being a good mother.
I guess I missed the part where someone actually said you were not a good mother.
I saw several places that some one thought or implied sex was overly important to you, but that was compared to the posters opinion of how important sex was to him.
Right now I see some added anger in your replies and I think it is adding to your resentment of your M situation.
I know it is tough to be in a passion starved M LFL. I am trying to be your friend, so how about giving yourself some credit for the things you do right.
