Hairdog, guess I was just following NOPs advice there...tell the world I know what's goin' on. Actually, I sent the OM an email earlier this afternoon asking for a time this evening when I could skype both him AND his wife. Funny thing, they'e both real busy this evening...

Talked to my mom a couple of hours ago. Good ol' mom. When her and dad were in their early 50's my dad had an affair...really tore my mom up, but they managed to stay together. She said trust was the big thing. Then she laughed...she say's "we're so damn old now we need each other just to get back and forth to the doctor's office!"

Love my mom.

Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden