W still angry with me, but the intensity lessens

[Pudmuddle]

Ok, the first thing I've noticed when the WAS's start noticing you changing is that they interpret it as 'you don't care'. I've really found this to be common among the WASs as one of the first signs that they have noticed you changing in a good way. Now, think about it, you are peaking her curiousity aren't you? Your DB is working!

I think this is where you can start to Test and Monitor. When you do talk with her continue to keep it light, be very curious about her day and what happened. You might try to pat her shoulder when she says something funny? Just light touches mind you. I once took my Hs hand and squeezed it after he said something funny. Took him aback a little but he didn't object. Remember you are only conducting a test, if something doesn't work, don't do it again, don't apologize but just don't do it again. Try something else. There are very subtle ways of showing a woman you care...Maybe if she likes coffee or a fave drink bring her one 'just because'. Don't get down when things don't come out as you expected, just chug forward and try again.

Only you know what worked in the past for her, try hard to remember those things.