sounds like she is pretty broken (drinking, feeling low) trying to cure her depression, sounds like a pretty depressed person to me, might be hitting the proverbial "rock bottom" when all heck breaks loose and they see what a mess they've created. Would she go to individual counceling if she isnt ready for MC? she sounds like she needs some therapy big time (same boat here, my H is too confused internally to begin truly working on our M, we live together but sleep appart)
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
