DR Chapter 2 - Think Small

[Mellers]

Hi all...

Here's a list I've posted on my thread on separated - I found it quite useful to make myself focus on the positive responses/reactions I'm getting, rather than the negatives of the situation...

It's too easy to get bogged down in the mire, and after all, "what we focus on expands"

* V. day card and roses
* Took me to his parents' house as a change of scenery
* Called me twice when working in States recently
* Always tells me he loves me "lots and lots and lots"
* Says he can't imagine ever being with anyone else
* Says he can see us getting married some day
* Stays in my bed and cuddles
* Says he thinks I'm v. talented
* He's concerned about my welfare when I go away to London
* Tells me I'm gorgeous
* Says I've got a better bum than Kylie LOL
* Told me he'd take me to Italy if I want to go
* He's "not ruling out" the idea of having children (!!) V. much ruling this out before...
* Says he wants me to go away with him to work 100%
* When I was sick on holiday and went into the other room, he followed me and sat with me until I felt well enough to go back to bed (although I was suspicious after that - what didn't he want me to check on his mobile phone, which he had no need to bring?...)
* Says he loves to hear me singing - makes him realise how much he loves me
* He's agreed to write with me
* When he was last here, he came to my house to let me know he had to go back to work early, instead of just going and leaving me wondering
* He brought the aftershave I bought him for christmas with him, and sneaked upstairs to put it on. When I commented that it smelt nice, he said he was trying to do the right thing
* He brought a video and popcorn and cakes just because "they looked funny" and he wanted to make me happy
* He promised to ring me when he got through with work that weekend, and he did, then called again midweek
* Always says I smell nice when he hugs me

I hope to be able to add to this list....!

Mel