Adventures of Supermom...JennyF's 2nd thread

[Pudmuddle]

Hey jenny,

I posted right when you posted so I didn't get to see your last post.

Sorry you feel down. I remember feeling this way, that everything was gone and did that mean I wanted it over, etc etc. Then I realized that is part of the detaching process, you are detaching from someone who is hurting you and you no longer know. Not that that isn't painful still, but you really don't want THIS person as is right now do you? No. You want the better him. Let him travel his journey and detach from his travels too. I wish I had a secret ray gun to disintigrate all of the OPs. LOL. Keep praying, that helped me alot too and I am not a strongly religious person. But it kind of helped me to have a daily mantra of how things were going to be better. And how I envisioned them everyday to be better. Helped to maintain the PMA subconsciously.