Mojo, You didn't mention what NG's reaction was when you "bucked" him out of the way to diddle with yourself...to please yourself? As a man, my own personal guess is that it probably turned him on even more...no?
He was vastly amused and said something like "Here let me get you in a better position for that then." and then put me into the position which I named "The Cedar Point" and then it was pretty much like the amusement park blew up during an earthquake because we both came so strong and hard and limbs were flying everywhere.
Corri,
I totally agree with what you were saying above. In terms of getting arousal in sync, it works best by far if both partners enter the elevator on the same floor. A good "trick" every HD person on this BB might acquire would be to go down a few floors if necessary to "pick up" a LD partner before hitting the UP button. Because I am so self-aware about sexuality these days, I keep noting things about "Why" things work with the "normal" men I've been with lately in contrast to why they didn't with my 2bx.
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