Originally Posted By: wawpioneer
I really don't have a choice because I really love her and need her in my life.



yes you love her, but no you don't NEED her. you need God, but you don't need your wife. elimiate that feeling of need, and it will help you. truly learn that you cannot rely on other people for your happiness.


guess everyones already said it though.


I'm very glad to hear how your going to try, and use patience. A long time ago I thought I heard a pastor say that if you hear something three times, then you KNOW God is trying to tell you something. So, obviously patience is something you need to work on! ;\) so do all of us though.


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."