I have been saying all along that making whatever contact there is on your terms gives you back something that was taken....your self esteem and some control of your life. I doubt it will make or break him coming back.
And wanted to add.. you can do a LOT of damage in a day or a week, but the healing / reconciliation is not going to be impacted anywhere near that quickly... a few weeks of terrible contact could break everything (not to mention dig your own emotional hole deeper), but no contact will not make or break anything that quickly.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
