Dry_Heat:

I never said that a man and woman can not be friends. What I said was deep friendship is not really possible. I have lots of women friends. They are out in the open. But I NEVER talk to them about intimate things. There is nothing in my converstaions with them that would bother my wife. But if a woman and a man have conversrtaions that they would feel uncomfortable having with their spouses present, this is a big warning flag that the conversations are not about friendship, but are starting to fill "NEEDS", and filling needs is on the slippery slope to an EA.