alright let me clarify, for those of you who think I am beating the "OW" drum day and night:
untrue, but when spouse pulls out "oh and BTW I'm going to dinner with OW and son..." and other such crap I feel the need to convey that I do NOT approve and will not tolerate such choices FOREVER. We have much to fix and spouse has said she wants to fix it, but ACTIONS speak louder than words and MOST of her actions haven't changed much. I have not had any raving fits but have calmly told spouse that her feelings will not change until she aligns her actions with same...Sometimes I slip and have a less than perfect moment but let me assure you "less than perfect" so far has been calm and controlled...walk a mile in my shoes, go ahead I dare ya! Whatsis you HAVE so you're forgiven.
I'm really frustrated lately and yes, I will examine "let go and let Kharma" and see what I can do. Last night spouse came and got in bed with me to "cuddle"...could have knocked me over with a feather. Quite honestly sometimes I need to say MORE about what I will NOT tolerate or the child in my spouse trys to get away with tons of crap. As to OW here's my mantra: "f-her, no wait, who? What OW?"....I know you are but what am I....Non-entity so far as I am concerned.
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
