It's gonna work - \:\) thanks for the specifics in the DR book. Looks like i need to to some research. I need to read and reread some times to make stuff sink in. i appreciate it.

fb2. I can't imagine how hard it is for you to go through this, but hang in there. this time of being cut off from her will give you an awesome chance to work on you. An A is a symptom of the problems in the R. It is not the problem itself. Think about what you can change in you to make you a better stronger individual. It's hard with kids. How old are yours? DB as best you can. If you are communicating via email. Keep things short and sweet and nothing about R. Be patient. Focus on your kids and yourself. You can do this. \:\)

Dom - i get nervous when you post. hehe. I sincerely appreciate your advice and opinion, sometimes i just don't want to hear it. I know that you will have advice to make me work. It's good for me and I know it, just don't like to admit it... thanks for the kind words above. I have learned alot about myself and what i want out of my M through this process. I hope my H can get that type of clarity soon.

If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown

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